Dear Narcissist Problems,
It will be three
years since we broke up. He was still married to the first wife ( I had no
idea). His previous ex-girlfriend was still communicating with him...then he
started dating my co-worker during my discard. Co-worker knew all of this still
got involved with him and got pregnant too. He is now divorced from the 1st
wife and the new wife is the co-worker and house, traveling, hanging with
friends like everything great!!They are all over social media smiling with the
whole family, and he making her his #wcw and missing her friends. We never got
to do any of that. It seems as if he is treating her better than me. Does she
not know the truth?
Sincerely,
The Discard
Dear Discard,
Does she not
know what? The new wife? Of course she knows! Now if she cares that is a different story. She thinks what everyone thinks “It will never
happen to me because I am different”. What you really need to do is detach yourself
from this whole night mare. Let’s get
real here, does it really matter if he is treating anyone better than he
treated you? The guy is obviously a scum
bag! You do not need the validation or
affection of someone like this. As for
her, I really hope you are not still friends with this woman. You guys broke up three years ago and I know
it takes a lot to heal from a relationship with a narcissist but don’t keep
updated with him or her. Delete and
block them from social media because if you are trying to lose your sanity this
is how you do it. Focus on what is good
in your life and surround yourself with friends who will not get knocked up and
marry your ex-married boyfriend. You don’t
need that kind of drama in your life.
Take a moment and just imagine how much you could accomplish and how
successful you can be if you block out this negativity. Seriously consider seeking the help of a
qualified therapist and joining some support groups. Three years is way too long it’s time to take
back your life!
Sincerely,
Narcissist Problems
